Why Women to Have Quick Orgasms !!!

Another night of disappointment where he had all the fun and you just became the means? Then you should learn the tips and tricks to make your sex life as enjoyable as his.

Research has proven that most women fake orgasms because they cannot reach the ultimate pleasure point as fast as men. They get tired and eventually end up without orgasms which is the most disappointing thing that can ever happen while having sex.

Women usually take a longer time to orgasm than men. Therefore it is extremely important that women should make sure that they orgasm every time they have sex. The lack of orgasms results in a lot of mental frustration and anger. This will only create more problems in your relationship. So, if your man is not sensitive enough to wait for you to orgasm, you have to make your own arrangements.

Here are a few tips for women to orgasm quickly.

Relax
No, you don't need to head to the spa. This just means relaxing your mind and not worrying about the orgasm part. Most women miss out on the orgasm part because they are too tensed about it.

Talk
Talk dirty. It not only turns your man on, you also get immensely turned on by dirty talks. Touch your body and make those seductive noises.

Touch
If you man is not the one to go down on you, do it yourself. Touch your pleasure points and turn yourself on. Do a little bit of fingering down there or take his penis and rub it against your vagina. Do it till you are totally wet.

Just because your man is all set to go doesn't mean that you are ready too. Take your time to play with yourself. Don't rely on your partner only though. Fantasizing with whatever arouses you will help you reach an orgasm faster. Don't feel guilty about thinking about something else if that helps you enjoy sex.

Why Men Want to morning Sex !!!!

t has often been noted that women are horny at night while men relish morning sex. Have you ever experienced it? It's true. Most men tend to feel tired and lousy at night and even though their wives put up all the romantic stuffs up for them to get some action, all they do is to lie on the bed and snore. On the contrary, when men get a hard in the early morning, their wives just don't seem to be in the mood. Ever wondered why?

As the studies point out, it all comes down to the play of hormones. The testosterone levels in men is at its peak during the morning hours. That is the reason why men feel more horny in the morning while women love to hold on to their pillows.

It has often been noted that women are horny at night while men relish morning sex. Have you ever experienced it? It's true. Most men tend to feel tired and lousy at night and even though their wives put up all the romantic stuffs up for them to get some action, all they do is to lie on the bed and snore. On the contrary, when men get a hard in the early morning, their wives just don't seem to be in the mood. Ever wondered why?

As the studies point out, it all comes down to the play of hormones. The testosterone levels in men is at its peak during the morning hours. That is the reason why men feel more horny in the morning while women love to hold on to their pillows.

Why Choose Men of Bathroom Sex!!!

One of the nicest surprises happened to me the other day.  We have a ‘small’ private toilet in our bedroom with one of those small washbasins to wash your hands after using the toilet.

It was early in the morning when I woke up. Well, I walked into the toilet, (we sleep naked most of the time) and took my penis in hand to have a pee. My wife was in the room, but it was so normal for me (us) not to close the door if it was just to have a pee.

The next moment I heard my wife saying, “Let me! Let me! I wanna, I wanna!”  Then she was standing tightly behind me and put her arm around me and grabbed my semi hard penis in her hand. “I want to hold it and see if I can aim it.”

Now the problem is this…. to aim with a flaccid penis is easy, but that changed in about 3 seconds flat. My penis jumped from soft to hard faster than you can shout “Happy Holidays!”  To make thing even worse (actually better) she slowly started pulling back my foreskin to reveal my purple head. I am still amazed at how quickly I responded to her fun-game and how fast my penis became hard and pulsating. Maybe this was some hidden fantasy that came to the surface.

Let’s get back to the story. The guys will understand that it is not the easiest thing to do to have a pee while you have a full blown hard-on. So there I was standing with my penis in my wife’s little hand and nothing was happening.

She said, “Come now and make a pee for mommy!”  Still nothing. “Come on, Big Boy. Let’s see you hit the target!” She was really enjoying this and instead of allowing me to focus on the job at hand (or should I say ‘the throb in her hand’), she slowly opened and closed my foreskin over my pulsating head. It really made things worse although it felt so good.

I said, “Honey, you are making it really hard for me.”

Her response was, “No my dear, I am making it really hard for me!” She laughed and then pushed my penis down towards the toilet and we just stood there.  Nothing was said. We now both focused on the job that had to be done. My penis was still bobbing with every beat of my heart. We waited……and waited. I finally felt that tingling feeling when a pee is about to start and then…..

Her aim was off. She hit the back of the toilet, readjusted her aim but hit the seat and then, at last, there was the wonderful sound of her hitting the water. She shouted, “BINGO!”  We laughed as she played with what she was doing and she finished of by doing the shaking thing (Someone was going to have to clean the floor).

I finished a very pleasurable pee and thought that was the ed of the game, but she was not done with me yet.  She was still holding my penis that was still in a full state of arousal. She made me turn towards the small washbasin and started lovingly rinsing and washing my penis, focusing on the head.

I watched her fingers slowly rub over the head. Opening it all the way and using her thumb to rub around the rim that was now hyper sensitive. She would cup her hand and fill it with water and then lovingly pour it over my throbbing head. Then she took some soap and lathered her hand and then gently took my penis in her hand and slid her hand up and down along my penis – focusing on the head. Oh, that head was now dripping with pre-cum and loving every second. Her other hand moved down to my balls and started fondling them. The head of my penis was swollen and clean and craving more attention. The job was completed by her rinsing my entire penis and balls and making quite a mess on the already wet floor.

She turned me around and closed the lid of the toilet and sat down on it and the next moment my penis disappeared between her lips and at the SAME TIME her finger disappeared between her pussy lips. I was in a heaven of her making. The next thing she did was to give me a light slap on the inside of my thigh indicating that I should spread my legs. She could not speak with her mouth full, as I spread my legs she took her other hand, and put it past underneath my balls and then started wiggling it up between my bum cheeks and touched my anus.

It was evident that this was turning her on big time because the next moment her face flushed, she stopped her movement on my penis and started making deep grunting sounds as her orgasm rocked her body. It seemed to just go on an on. Her hand had stopped moving in her pussy, but the orgasms just kept cumming.   At that point I needed NO help from her and felt the cum rushing up from my balls and exploding into her mouth. This set her off on yet another mountain-top experience. I stood there with my two arms stretched out and supporting myself against the walls of the toilet because my knees were ready to fold under me. 

Watch TV and Learn Sex

TELEVISION IS A MAJOR PART OF DAILY LIFE

• Americans spend about one-third of their free time, MORE THAN THE NEXT 10 MOST POPULAR LEISURE ACTIVITIES COMBINED, watching television. The average teenager spends more time in front of the television than any other activity besides sleeping.
• Television viewing increases in pre-teen years and declines after age 12. Adolescents aged 9-14 spend over 20 percent of waking hours watching television, compared to 9 percent on hobbies and 3.5 percent on homework.
• The average American teen spends about 20 hours a week watching television, with the heaviest viewers coming from low-income households.
• African-American households, in general, watch more television than other groups in the U.S. African-Americans watch, on average, two more hours of primetime television per week and watch close to five more hours of daytime television per week.
• By age 18, a teenager will have seen 350,000 commercials; 100,000 may be advertisements for beer.

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CONSUMING WHILE WE CONSUME MEDIA
While watching TV:

• 31% of kids (ages 8-17) eat or drink while watching in the morning
• 21% of kids eat or drink while watching in the afternoon
• 27% of kids eat or drink while watching in the evening
  

While using the Internet:

• 19% of kids eat or drink while using in the morning
• 2% of kids eat or drink while using in the afternoon
• 4% of kids eat or drink while using in the evening

I Don’t Have A Condom, Now What to do ?

We Don’t Have A Condom, Now What?

 

What do we do when we’re finally alone with our sexual partner, very in the mood and eager to start AND finish things off but don’t have a condom? 

Well, whether or not you’re just rubbing against that special spot, or other methods, there are other ways that can get you to achieve the orgasm or ejaculation that you’re searching for.

5 Ways To Achieve Sexual Satisfaction Without Intercourse

HAND JOBS, FINGERING, & SEX TOYS 

Depending on your comfort level, there are multiple options to explore. If  you’re open to self pleasure, there is always the old school method of using your fingers to help yourself get to completion while your partner participates. Good old, Rosie palm and the 5 sisters can always be handy…

If you’re looking for an alternative way to achieve ejaculation or orgasmic satisfaction, you can go with the classic hand job. But if you’re looking to spice thing up a bit, the Tenga Egg is a great alternative for male masturbation. It’s an egg shaped silicone device with a hole on the bottom used for inserting lube and your penis. They come in different textures for different experiences. Each egg is filled with lube to enhance your hand-job. Perhaps the best part about this, if giving yourself an orgasmic hand-job wasn’t enough, you can ejaculate into the egg and either wash it out, or throw it away and try a different one for a different hand-job experience.

If you’re looking for a more upbeat and engaging way to give or receive pleasure, you can also try the LELO Siri 2, which is a new sound-responsive sex toy that can stimulate you to the beat of your favorite songs. A little singing and stimulating never hurt nobody. If you’re in the mood for something more luxurious in the sense of personal pleasure, there’s also the LIV 2 which offers internal and external stimulation to get you to your climax.

WATCH PORN TOGETHER

If you have difficulty getting in the mood by yourself, or just need a little extra mental boost, watching pornography together can help facilitate mental stimulation, which can lead to both penile and vaginal arousal. 

ORAL SEX

While oral sex such as blow jobs and cunnilingus (or as commonly known as eating out, and I don’t mean Chinese food) do involve bodily fluids and more often than not do not include condoms, there is a significantly less risk of pregnancy through oral pleasure than intercourse as there is no penile vaginal contact. Keep in mind that you can still get virtually almost any STD through oral sex. Oral sex is pleasurable in different ways depending on the individual, so it is important to be responsive, open and understanding to your partners likes and dislikes. 

Sexual activity is not fool-proof, even if you don’t have intercourse. You still need to be aware of STI’s and pregnancy despite the lack of vaginal/penile penetration.

Dry humping without underwear on, using or sharing sex toys or touching yourself and then your partner can exchange one another’s bodily fluids.

STI’S

Anytime that your genitals are exposed to another person’s bodily fluids (semen, vaginal fluid, saliva, or blood) you can be at risk of sexually transmitted infections.  With oral sex, you also run the risk of STI transmission , after all, bacteria and viruses like warm, wet places like mouths and genitals. In order to be most efficient with your STI screenings, make sure to wait 2 weeks after your last exposure to receive testing for bacterial infections and 3 months to be tested for HIV. Herpes will typically show symptoms relatively soon after it is contracted, but can take up to 6 weeks to appear after transmission or even longer!

Bottom line: 

If you think you may have been exposed to an infection of any kind through sexual contact make sure to go to a doctor to have it properly diagnosed and make sure to let your partner know. If sexually active, routine STI testing every 3-6 months is best for your sexual health, depending on your activity. 

PLAN B

Whenever you come in contact with bodily fluids, there is a possibility that pregnancy and STI transmission may take place. If you are worried you may become pregnant, taking Plan B One Step, or other emergency contraceptive pills can be used as a last resort contraception option for up to 72 hours after exposure. Emergency contraceptives do not protect against STI’s.