How to Give a Sensual Massage She’ll Never Forget
Let’s start the sensual massage
So now you have the perfect setup for giving your sensual massage.
You’ve set the perfect mood, you have the best oil, and your techniques
are spot on. Your ready to give the perfect sensual massage and have her
graciously returning the favor.
Here’s a look a few popular sensual massage moves you can do tonight to get her in the mood.
1) Head massage (no oil needed)
A head massage can be extremely relaxing. Plus they are perfect for a
girl who you have not yet been intimate with, and who may be a little
hesitant to letting you touch her sensitive areas.
Have her lie down on her stomach with her head on a pillow. If she is
uncomfortable without a massage table she can turn her head to one side
and change its position from time to time. Also, if its easier for you,
you can give a head massage if she is in any comfortable seated
position.
Start by rubbing her temples and forehead. Then, run fingers through
her hair and apply gentle downward pressure. Massage the entire scalp in
this manner for as long as you wish, and then kiss her ears (sensitive
erogenous zone) at the end.
Check below for a perfect tutorial video:
2) Back, shoulder and neck massage
Back, shoulder and neck massage is what you think of right away when
you hear the word massage. And for good reason. This is one of the most
relaxing massages to receive and can quickly turn into a sensual
evening.
For this, the woman has to be face down and her back must be bare. Get
a moderate amount of oil, warm it in your hands and apply to her upper
body. Start with long strokes on her back, up and down. Then start to do
some Shiatsu and kneading to the shoulders, while every once in a while
progressing to gently stroke the neck.
The bonus of this sensual rubdown is that eventually you will make
your way down to the buttocks, which we will cover in number 3.
3) Buttocks massage
The buttocks are a highly erotic area meant to be spoiled with your
new moves. This is a very sensual massage that is perfect for a romantic
foreplay. Just make sure she is game before you start.
Place your palms on her erotic mounds and massage in circular
movements. Increase the pressure gradually as you cover every area.
Next, place your hands on her right buttock and use the kneading
technique. Remember, create a roll of skin using your thumbs and push it
up. Repeat on the left side. She may just enjoy this as much as you.
4) Leg massage
She will be pleased if you stroke her thighs and calves, knead them
lightly and caress them using your fingertips. Make sure not to put too
much pressure on the knee pits while you use your thumbs to gently
massage the area around the kneecap. For a leg massage, it is best to
have her lie on her back. (see video 1 below)
5) Foot massage
The feet are a very special part of the body. They are literally a
sensual map of all the body, reflecting different organs and even
personality.
Have her lie down on her back. Do not press too much in any small
areas because you can make her have diarrhea for a week (trust me, its
possible).
Start from the heel and go up. Be gentle, but not too soft – press a little and work with your thumbs.
6) Hand massage
Hand massage is very similar to the foot massage. Hands, like feet,
are the map of the body. Start close to the wrist and go up. Massage
every area of her hand with your thumbs and finish off by gently playing
with her fingertips. She’ll enjoy this.
7) Chest massage
A chest or breast massage is a prelude to sex. If you are massaging
other parts of her body, chest should be the last. If you start with it
you will make her very anxious and ready for love games and then what?
Relaxing foot massage? It’s like eating dessert first and after it
chewing a steak.
The trick with chest-breast massage is to slowly build up the desire
and finish off with the nipples. It is very important to read her body
language – look at her face and listen to her. Don’t worry, she will
tell you how hard you can be.
Start softly and gently and slowly build more pressure. Remember to
caress every area of the breast as they have essential erogenous zones all
over them. Be more aggressive if she sounds encouraging, rub the
breasts, bring them together, squeeze gently and finish off with the
nipples.
I don’t have to tell you what comes next.
8) Putting it all together – Full body rubdown
So now you are a master at every area of her beautiful body.
The key is to be able progress this into a full body, head-to-toe
rubdown, including all the body parts. Not only is this highly satisfying for her, but it is the greatest visual for a man.
Below, I found an incredible 4 part sensual massage series that will
show you exactly how to give a sensual massage that will leave her
breathless. I will break it down from video to video as we go. This
massage is perfect, and I promise you will enjoy watching it ; )
Before we start the breakdown, first begin the massage by applying the
oil to your hands and not to her body. You can always add more oil, but
its hard to get too much off. What I love about the start of this
massage is that she first tends to her arms and legs. You can start her
on her back or stomach, but don’t forget to take care of her arms and
legs. They are often overlooked.
I love how she straddles her partner as she starts the back
massage. This is essential. Don’t be afraid to mount your partner, it
only amplifies the sexuality. Her back massage is perfect, you don’t
have to be an expert, just make sure to cover all areas. Notice how she
Kneads and does Shiatsu to the shoulders. Her shoulders will be the most
tense, so many find it good to focus a lot of attention on this area.
In this video she used the stroking technique perfectly, up and down the
back. When she tends to the lower back she used some friction going
outward, stretching those tight lower back muscles. Its simple, but
simple is effective.
She finishes off with a nice buttocks massage and I am sure her
partner is extremely relaxed. This is a simple technique that is perfect
for anyone to use when partaking in a sensual massage. It takes no training and will leave you with one happy lady.
Now the video was very sensual and all, but a lot of you are probably wondering:
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“How do I progress the sensual massage to sex?”
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If this is your wife or girlfriend, the massage should most
definitely prelude to sex. Just go for it! Slowly start to suck or lick
her nipples, or gently begin to finger her, perform oral sex or
penetration.
But maybe shes not your girlfriend and you haven’t broken the ice of intercourse with her yet. What then?
Say its your 5th date, she find your massage book on your bedside
table and she sparks some curiosity. After dinner things start to get
romantic and you offer her the full treatment. She accepts.
You retire to the bedroom as she disrobes and you set the mood, light
some candles and warm the oil. 30 minute into the massage your heating
up, and you want to transition into sex. What do you do?
1) Start first by removing her towel fully. If she lets you without hesitation this is a really good sign, but just continue massaging like its no big deal.
2) If shes on her stomach, slowly start
to massage higher and higher up her thigh until you reach the point
right before her lady parts. Hold there and continue to massage her
inner thigh, slightly grazing her vagina. She should start to get a
little restless. If after a few minutes she hasn’t resisted or told you
to watch your hands, you are safe to proceed further and begin to slowly
finger her. From here the rest is all you. Or, if you two are on the
same page, simply begin enter her with your penis from behind while you
are straddling her like in video 3. Receiving both sexual pleasure and
massage pleasure at the same time cannot be beat.
3) If shes on her back, make your way up
to her chest and start massaging the area around her breasts. Again,
stay here for a minute or two and if you see no resistance start to
massage her breasts. After a few more minutes proceed to use your mouth
and caress her nipples. Again, from here the rest is all you.
4) Talk to her! If you’re still unsure, just ask her. Its less smooth and sexy, but its better than a slap in the face!
Its up to you to gauge if your relationship is at that stage or if
she is down to go further. Listen to her body, gauge her breathing and
most importantly have fun. But just in case, no means no.
9 last minute tips on how to give a sensual massage she’ll never forget
- Have warm hands, a warm room, a firm surface and a pillow for her head.
- Have a towel – to cover her (during a full body massage when you are
working on the legs, cover her back) or to put under her ankles or neck
for comfort.
- When she is lying down make sure her body is straight. You can
relieve stress and release pressure just by laying the person straight.
- **IMPORTANT – First apply a drop of the oil on her hand – to test for any allergies.
- For a massage, apply the oil to your hands, not directly to her skin.
- Everything everywhere – carefully. No pushing too much, no
aggressive pinching. Always give soothing, relaxing massage moves, never
heavy or deep.
- Massage muscles, not bones (especially be careful with the spine, massage around it).
- Talk to her, ask her what she likes. Read her body and listen. She
will tell you – directly or just sighing or silently moaning with
pleasure. Communication and chemistry between you two will make your
work a success.
- The last and the most important: don’t be shy! Get your hands on
her! Women love it. They love massage, attention, feeling special! Put
the focus and feeling into what you are doing. It is extremely
attractive and so much more important and powerful than any super
professional massage techniques.
Enjoy,